Finally break free from the mental patterns keeping you stuck. Even if you've achieved everything you thought you wanted.
Discover why high-performers feel trapped despite success, and learn the "Admin Mode" technique that rewrites your mental programming in real-time (without years of therapy or endless self-improvement).
You've Built an Amazing Life... So Why Does It Feel Like a Prison?
Sound familiar?
"I have everything I thought I wanted, but I still feel empty inside"
"I'm successful on paper but anxiety runs my life"
"I'm exhausted from maintaining this perfect image"
"I keep achieving more but nothing ever feels like enough"
"I'm great at work but my relationships are falling apart"
If you're nodding along, you're not alone. You're experiencing what I call "The Glitch"—when the very patterns that created your achievements become the source of your suffering.
The Shocking Truth About High Achievement
After 25+ years working with elite performers—from Premier League footballers to Fortune 500 CEOs—I discovered something that will change how you see success forever:
The most accomplished people are often the most tormented.
Not because they're weak or broken, but because they're running the same five mental "programs" that:
✅ Drive extraordinary results in the short term
❌ Systematically destroy health, relationships, and inner peace in the long term
Why everything you've tried has failed
You've probably invested thousands in:
Executive coaching that gave you new strategies (but the same mental patterns)
Therapy that helped you understand your past (but didn't change your daily experience)
Meditation apps and mindfulness (that worked temporarily)
Self-help books that made sense (but didn't create lasting change)
High-performance programs (that made you even more driven)
Here's why none of it stuck: You were trying to optimize a fundamentally flawed operating system.
It's like trying to run the latest software on a computer from 1995. No matter how good the application, the outdated operating system will crash under pressure.
The five "Hamster Wheels" running your life
Through studying thousands of high-achievers, I've identified exactly five core programs that every successful person runs (often unconsciously):
1. The Achievement Trap (Gain/Loss Wheel)
"I need to keep achieving more to feel valuable"
"If I stop pushing, I'll lose everything I've built"
Result: Hollow victories that never satisfy
2. The Competence Prison (Able/Unable Wheel)
"I have to be the expert/the one with answers"
"Showing weakness or asking for help feels dangerous"
Result: Perfectionist paralysis and imposter syndrome
3. The Control Obsession (Right/Wrong Wheel)
"I need to make sure nothing goes wrong"
"Mistakes feel catastrophic"
Result: Micromanagement and chronic stress
4. The People-Pleasing Cycle (Support/Let Down Wheel)
"I have to take care of everyone else first"
"If I don't help, I'm selfish"
Result: Resentment and burnout from over-giving
5. The Visibility Paradox (Attention/Ignore Wheel)
"I need recognition but I'm terrified of being truly seen"
"Success feels good but the pressure is overwhelming"
Result: Fame without fulfillment, success without satisfaction
The cruel irony: These patterns are designed to be unwinnable. The harder you run, the faster they spin you back to exactly what you're trying to escape.
What high-performers are saying:
"I was making seven figures but felt like a fraud every day. Rob showed me the exact programs running my life. For the first time in 20 years, success actually feels satisfying." — Tech CEO
"I thought my anxiety was just part of being successful. Turns out it was childhood programming I could actually change. My whole family noticed the difference." — Investment Banker
"After decades of therapy and countless self-help books, this was the missing piece. I finally understand why I sabotage myself right before breakthrough moments." — Serial Entrepreneur
Elite-Level Experience:
5 years Head of Performance, Chelsea FC (working with world's top athletes)
3 years with FC Barcelona performance team
20+ years helping Olympic champions, CEOs, and elite performers
Thousands of breakthrough sessions across 6 continents
Author of "GLITCH - The Hidden Code Running Your Life (And How To Debug It)"
Admin Mode: from player to system administrator
Here's the breakthrough insight: You're not stuck because you lack willpower, discipline, or the right strategies. You're stuck because you're trying to win a game that's rigged against you.
Admin Mode is like getting access to the developer console of your own mind. Instead of being trapped inside your mental programming, desperately trying to optimize your performance, you become the programmer who can see the source code and make changes at the system level.
What One Session Can Do:
In just 60 minutes, you'll experience:
✓ Pattern Recognition: See exactly which mental programs are running your life (most people have 1-2 dominant wheels)
✓ The Shift: Experience what it feels like to observe your thoughts and emotions without being overwhelmed by them
✓ Immediate Relief: Many clients report instant reduction in anxiety, perfectionism, or people-pleasing patterns
✓ Practical Tools: Leave with specific daily practices to maintain Admin Mode consciousness
✓ Clear Next Steps: Know exactly what's been keeping you trapped and how to step out permanently
I'm Karen Darke. After a year and a half studying with Rob, I'm really excited about this healing method—I believe it's the future of health and well-being.
Common questions & concerns
"I've Tried Everything—How Is This Different?"
Here's the difference: Every other approach tries to change your behaviors, habits, or mindset while leaving the core operating system intact.
This work identifies and upgrades the fundamental programs creating all your surface-level challenges. When you change the source code, everything built on top of it transforms automatically.
"This Sounds Too Good to Be True"
The most profound changes come from the clearest recognitions. When you see that you're running childhood survival programming as a successful adult, the seeing itself begins to dissolve the patterns.
"I Don't Have Time for Another Program"
You're not signing up for another program. You're getting access to the control panel of your own mind.
Think about it: How much time are you currently spending managing anxiety, fixing relationship conflicts, or pushing through exhaustion? Admin Mode doesn't add to your schedule—it eliminates the internal drama consuming your mental bandwidth.
"What If I Lose My Drive?"
This is the #1 fear of high-achievers: "If I stop being driven by these patterns, will I become mediocre?"
Here's what actually happens: You stop achieving from desperation and start creating from inspiration. Your performance often improves because you're no longer fighting internal resistance.
As one CEO told me: "I'm still ambitious, but now it feels like play instead of survival."
"The Investment Seems High"
Let's do the math:
How much do you spend annually on performance optimization? (Coaching, courses, books, apps)
What's the cost of staying stuck in these patterns for another year? (Stress, relationships, health, missed opportunities)
What would be possible if you could operate from genuine clarity instead of childhood programming?
One client calculated: The mental bandwidth he freed up by stopping his people-pleasing pattern was worth $200K in increased focus and decision-making quality.
This isn't an expense—it's the highest-ROI investment you can make in yourself.
Your 55-minute breakthrough session
What Happens in Your Session:
Minutes 1-20: Find the Pattern
Identify your dominant hamster wheel pattern
See exactly how it shows up in your work, relationships, and daily life
Experience the recognition that transforms everything
Minutes 21-40: Understand the Origins
Discover why your brilliant child-mind created this survival strategy
Understand the childhood circumstances that made this pattern necessary
Connect with compassion to the part of you that's been trying to keep you safe
Minutes 41-55: Your Exit Strategy
Learn your personalized Admin Mode protocol for stepping outside the pattern
Receive specific daily practices for maintaining freedom
Leave with a clear roadmap for permanent transformation
Investment: $350/£275
(Most clients say this single session was worth more than years of traditional therapy)
Why Now?
The patterns running your life get stronger with time, not weaker.
Every day you operate from childhood programming:
❌ Reinforces neural pathways that keep you stuck
❌ Passes these patterns to your children (if you have them)
❌ Costs you energy, relationships, and peace of mind
❌ Prevents you from accessing your full potential
The good news: Unlike therapy or traditional self-improvement, this work can create immediate shifts. Many clients experience significant relief in just one session.
Limited Availability: I only take 4 new breakthrough clients per month to ensure quality and attention.
Ready to access your admin privileges?
Book Your Breakthrough Session Now
What you'll discover in 55 minutes:
✓ The exact mental programs running (and ruining) your life
✓ How to access Admin Mode consciousness on demand
✓ Why you've been stuck despite all your efforts
✓ The fastest path to genuine freedom and fulfillment
Single session investment: $350/£275
What Happens Next:
Click the button above to access my private calendar
Choose your preferred time (sessions available worldwide via video)
Complete the 5-minute pre-session assessment (sent immediately after booking)
Join our 60-minute deep-dive where you'll experience the shift firsthand
Walk away with Admin privileges to your own consciousness
"I wish I'd found this 20 years ago. My only regret is waiting so long." — Fortune 500 Executive
You already have everything you need
The admin password to your consciousness isn't something you need to earn, achieve, or become worthy of.
You were born with these privileges. You simply learned to operate from "user mode" because that's what kept you safe as a child.
Your childhood programming isn't your fault. A terrified four-year-old created brilliant survival strategies under impossible circumstances.
But continuing to run those programs as an adult IS your choice.
You don't need:
❌ Years of therapy to understand your past
❌ Perfect habits or discipline
❌ To fix or change anything about yourself
❌ Another course, book, or strategy
You need to remember who you actually are underneath all the programming.
The patterns keeping you stuck aren't evidence of personal failure—they're proof of childhood genius that's outlived its usefulness.
Your freedom is one recognition away.
P.S. Still hesitating? That's your programming talking. The part of you that's kept you "safe" by maintaining familiar patterns—even when they cause suffering.
Here's the question that matters: What would be possible if you could operate from genuine clarity instead of childhood survival strategies?
Your future self is waiting.